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How do we justify our performing the act of euthanasia, or "good death"? Because we are relieving suffering of course. We are doing something the animal would 'want', aren't we? Wouldn't they choose this end if they could? Can we go so far as to liken it to an assisted suicide? Makes it easier doesn't it? I think somewhere deep in my brain that is what I do. And so when life becomes unbearable is it such a leap to start to think of ourselves as the "assistant" to our own suicide... makes it easier somehow, separating the act from the recipient...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05896308793141382243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-660472546411319075.post-10919494385293026042017-05-04T06:25:12.880-07:002017-05-04T06:25:12.880-07:00Thank you for all of your helpful comments. We hav...Thank you for all of your helpful comments. We have had a huge response to this blog but are aware that some individuals are not able to post a comment. Please let us know if that is the case and we can post something anonymously for you. Both the Samaritans and VetLife are there to help if you have been affected by this blog (or anything else). Vetlife have a dedicated service for vets no matter what problem is. Vickihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02156727786225287938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-660472546411319075.post-27647554621842194862017-04-22T01:10:19.703-07:002017-04-22T01:10:19.703-07:00What fantastic words from Ben and those who have c...What fantastic words from Ben and those who have commented. I have a huge respect for BEVA members, having worked alongside you for more than 25 years, so may I add a link for you all? <br /><br />Samaritans is a fantastic organisation, available 24/7 by 'phone, e-mail, text and face-to-face. We never judge, we always listen, it's a safe place because of our rules of confidentiality. Whatever you're going through, call us free any time, from any phone on 116 123.<br /><br />We're here round the clock, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. If you need a response immediately, it's best to call us on the phone. This number is FREE to call. You don't have to be suicidal to call us. Have a look at www.samaritans.org for more information.<br /><br />I do hope it is OK for me to post this information, as I do have huge respect for the work you all do and some knowledge of the anxieties it can create.Anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06478985439054186182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-660472546411319075.post-1767453401241792072017-04-20T13:54:23.953-07:002017-04-20T13:54:23.953-07:00I would also add that if you are feeling suicidal,...I would also add that if you are feeling suicidal, you haven't lost your mind. Your mind is there just buried in a fog which can clear with the right help. If you reach out people will help you to clear the fog they will not think you have lost your mind (I suspect this was an attempt by the author to be poetic that in my mind didn't quite come off right)!unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15632006762848575825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-660472546411319075.post-77710033354639536662017-04-20T13:44:33.048-07:002017-04-20T13:44:33.048-07:00A terribly sad story and I thank you for sharing a...A terribly sad story and I thank you for sharing and putting your thoughts onto paper. <br />I hope it inspires people to seek help themselves but more importantly I hope it encourages others seek out those who need their help. <br />It makes me so sad to know that there are many people in our profession who are 'drowning and not waving' but what is more frustrating and upsetting is that there are those who are 'drowning and waving' but being over looked by colleagues. We must learn to see the subtle ‘waves’ of those who need our help and support. <br />I wonder how many of us have suspected something might not be quite right or can see that someone seems overwhelmed or is more irritable than usual and hasn’t spoken to them. <br />You might think these are hard conversations to have but they start a simple ‘how are you today?’ and really listening to the reply. Let them know that you are there for them to talk to. They might not open up right away but keep asking them and reminding them that you are there, you care and you want to help, that you value them and their life. <br />Please don’t miss the subtle ‘waves’ those waving might feel like they are waving frantically but not being seen. We all have a responsibility to look after each other and not bury our heads in the sand whilst others are drowning at sea. <br />unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15632006762848575825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-660472546411319075.post-1817823600031793562017-04-20T13:08:03.271-07:002017-04-20T13:08:03.271-07:00Sometimes it's just the effort of trying to ap...Sometimes it's just the effort of trying to appear normal which is too much. The last straw.<br />Very difficult to spot, the best thing is to be the kindest person you can be to everyone just in case. Requires effort and you will get dumped on periodically and some times you will fail but just keep trying to be the best person you can: good for everyone and good for you. Granny haystackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16960793226677559821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-660472546411319075.post-45993280025736189772017-04-20T06:32:15.612-07:002017-04-20T06:32:15.612-07:00A heart-wrenching piece.
I wonder how many of us...A heart-wrenching piece. <br /><br />I wonder how many of us are drowning not waving? Vets in particular, are so adept at just "carrying on" regardless of anything else. <br /><br />Be nice...you never know what battles another person is facing. <br /><br />Thanks for such a thought-provoking blog.<br /><br />Vicki Vickihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02156727786225287938noreply@blogger.com